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		<title>Gratitude.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The past few weeks I have been in a little bit of limbo. Making some decisions on the direction that I wist to take&#8230;]]></description>
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<p>The past few weeks I have been in a little bit of limbo. Making some decisions on the direction that I wist to take moving forward. Life can be like that and having a good group of coaches as friends always helps pull one out of the pit. On Friday while I was in the thick of the pit that was my life,  Shaun Proulx posted his usual Friday question on his radio show and on Facebook:</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">What are you appreciating on this Friday afternoon?</h3>
<p>and over on his blog, HIMBO! Shaun also does his weekly <a href="http://shaunproulx.ca/himbo/archives/3474">Feel good Friday&#8217;s</a></p>
<p>My response on Shaun&#8217;s wall was what I thought was a simple reply:</p>
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<div id="text_expose_id_4b7012130885902c4c03d" style="text-align: center;"><em>just the little things this week Shaun</em></div>
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<p>This hit me like a tone of bricks.</p>
<p>I am not appreciating all the little things in my life. Especially not the tiny things.</p>
<p>For it is the sum of all the good little things that totally out weigh the few grand experiences. In my coaching I often have to stop and remind my clients of exactly what they have accomplished over the course of our sessions. I detail every success and movement forward.</p>
<p>Thinking this through helped me see that I have not been telling myself all the good that had taken place in my life, all the things I come across in my daily life that just bring a simple smile to my face.</p>
<p>I needed this reminder. I took focusing on the small things in my life on as a challenge and started a new blog called <a title="the tiny things" href="http://www.thetinythings.com" target="_blank">thetinythings.com </a>where I capture in realtime all the tiny things that make me smile.</p>
<p>I hope you enjoy. I hope you take the time to recount the great things that happen to you over the course of this week, and if you find yourself feeling a little down and out with the winter blues, take a piece of paper and start  writing down all the things that make you feel good, bring a smile to your face or are just plain worth remembering.</p>
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