PSYCHIC :: Dear Miki, I’m a lesbian who met someone last year, she’s married but unhappy. There was an immediate attraction and a feeling that I have known her forever. I’ve been married before and have two children, and fought this attraction for months. The feelings I have just kept growing, and were confusing to me. She had a confrontation with her spouse, and they separated. I asked her for dinner, we got tipsy, and one thing led to another. She’s still separated from her spouse, but they live in the same house, (in separate bedrooms) but are separated in all aspects (both going their own ways). The feeling I’m still getting is that we have been together before this lifetime, and is growing stronger. I have given her lots of space, and she is going to therapy to straighten herself out, and learn to be more assertive. Is this the lifetime that we are finally destined to be together?
Signed, N
N: I do agree that your connection is one that is very intense, but it’s from this lifetime not the past. Your friend has had a very troubled marriage, and is uncertain about her lifestyle preferences. She is really struggling with what they are going to be at the end of the road. Despite the fact that the two of you have already had an intimate encounter, I see your feelings growing for her but hers are certainly not moving as quickly for you. I don’t see her split or separation going as smoothly as you think, and sense some ambivalence on her part about making changes. This is not the hand of destiny at play, but the desire of the heart so you want to put a limit on how long you are willing to wait for her to sort out her true sexual identity as the final results may not be what you are expecting.
Daily Affirmation ::
Building a relationship in times of identity crisis and confusion does not open a pathway to love and happiness.
MIKIPEDIA :: We are all capable of making mistakes and becoming confused at times, and when such times of crisis and despair arrive in our lives is when we run to the arms of those who show us comfort and affection. Nuturing is what helps human beings to weather the storms of emotional turmoil and the rocky seas that accompany them until the pain and struggle has passed. I have seen and many people over the years in my business who have also ventured into what were previously unchartered waters of all kinds and same sex encounters to ease their pain because they feel it is a haven of greater compassion for their suffering which results in emotional injury to the caregiving party. The lesson to be learned from these journeys in life is; “If you don’t know who you are don’t compromise the hearts of loving beings who do, for they are not meant to be your daily dose of painkiller.
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